Voice in Tech!


Hey Friends!

This week’s episode is of the future! Not really because we recorded back in January but the focus of our discussion and tips is voice and tech. We discuss the potential barriers of technology to effective communication and offer tips and tricks to turn it to your advantage. Whether you’re submitting audition videos, live streaming meetings or events in your job, or—I don’t know—podcasting at home, this is for you!

We also cover working with tech in live situations, so discussing different types of microphones, including a side story about discovering what AV teams refer to as “the Madonna Mic,” and really emphasising the importance of asking for what you prefer or need in a situation where tech is required to support your voice!

So get ready to embrace your status as tech lay person, lean into the importance of doing sound checks before you record or launch your live stream, and embrace the reach that technology allows us to have. As always, we’re keen to hear your questions and comments so please contact us however you see fit.

You can find this episode in podcast form on iTunes, Spotify, Google Podcast and the majority of alternative platforms. Please subscribe and review if you’re enjoying our content!

Until next time. Remember, the future is now! ; )

Take good care,

Christine & Lindsay

Have you checked out our podcast?

Lindsay preparing to record a new podcast episode 

Hi Friends,

We are thrilled to announce that we now have TEN BeSpoke Speaks podcast episodes that you can download on iTunes or BuzzSprout. Our first ten episodes are audio guides that take you though different vocal warm up sequences for different situations– perfect if you are getting ready for an audition, presentation, performance both live and on camera, or just want to keep up your confidence and vocal health. These episodes are some of the audio guides that you can find on this website, but now they are downloadable, so you can take them with you any and everywhere.

We are now in the process of recording our next round of episodes, where we’ll be discussing questions you have asked us about your voice, or voice and communication generally. The questions we’ve gotten already have been beautifully varied. We’ve had some great questions about using voice technique in social contexts, managing nerves in public speaking situations and how to apply voice technique to character work. We’re happy to discuss any question you have (we just love talking to each other), so if you have any curiosity about your communication, comment below or email us at bespoke.comcontact@gmail.com. When you send us a question, if you’d like us to say something about you on the podcast, like if you’re an actor and you’re working on a project, include details about who you are and where people can find out more about you and we’d be happy to promote you as we discuss your question.

We believe in the power of healthy, empowered communication, so we want to spread this podcast far and wide. If you’re enjoying what you’re hearing, please consider sharing this podcast with anyone you feel could benefit from it. If you feel so moved to leave us a rating and review on iTunes, we would be so grateful.

Feel free to also follow us on instagram @bespokespeaks and on our BeSpoke Communication Facebook page to get regular episode updates.

In the mean time, happy listening!

Christine & Lindsay

Happy Birthday, BeSpoke! Give the Gift of Conversation


It’s the start of March and we feel very lucky to have so much to celebrate, first of all Happy International Women’s Day! Whether you’re a woman or have women in your life you love, we hope you’re celebrating in your own way today. It’s a special day for us for many reasons. An important one is that four years ago today the two of us sat down and decided to try an experiment: easily accessible tools to help anyone curious about improving their communications skills. So we created BeSpoke Communication and had a great time figuring out our website and making posts for any interesting ideas that popped into our heads.

You may have noticed we’ve been slightly less than active in quite a while and the truth is life just got busy. We both got married (slightly tragically not to each other but happily to wonderful men), there has been a house move, travelling, and lots going on in our work lives. But we kept saying we wanted to come back to BeSpoke and think about something new, something more focused on you, the people interested in communication skills we want to reach. And now we’ve taken some time and we’re very excited to share our next step.

To make our content even more user friendly and available we are going to begin experimenting with BeSpoke as a podcast (name TBC although suggestions are welcome, especially plays on BeSpoke). As a starting point this will include making all our current audio clips available in a podcast format so you can subscribe for easy access and the ability to download. But that’s only the beginning.

The future we see for this podcast is as a conversation about communication skills, from the technical to the abstract, we want to talk about it all, and we really want it to be a conversation with you.

To make that possible and genuine we want your questions.

–Have you ever had a comment about the way you communicate that baffled you? Tell us.

— Struggles with public speaking, interviews, being heard in loud environments, being taken seriously?

— If you’re an actor– struggles in the rehearsal, audition, performance process you want discussed? We’re here for it. Questions about breath? Great!

Please DM, write in comments, email us at bespoke.comcontact@gmail.com and we will take your queries under consideration for episodes. We can credit you by first name, initial, or keep it completely anonymous, just let us know.

Funnily enough, we became close friends over a project in postgrad where we made a podcast (but that’s a story for another time) and here we are again! The podcast landscape has changed since those basic days so bear with us while we figure out the technology and get set up.

In the meantime keep the questions coming!

Watch this space for updates along the way. We can’t wait to talk it all out!

Take Good Care,

Christine & Lindsay


Don’t let Twitter Make You a Twit: Finding Your Voice on Twitter


I resisted Twitter for a long time. It just never appealed to me. I already feel like I have enough social media to handle, as well as enough noise coming at me, with Facebook. I also didn’t really like what seemed to be the principle behind Twitter— which seemed from the outside like it was just turning complex ideas into soundbites. It gave people a platform for spreading ideas quickly, but at the same time it seemed to be making communication worse, not better. A prime example of this is when elected officials in the US tweet during presidential speeches, such as the State of the Union. That kind of platform seems to encourage thoughtlessness in communication— speaking out of turn, responding in the moment rather than building in time for reflection, interrupting others when they are still speaking, and just generally not really listening— which is the cornerstone of communication.

But when Lindsay and I started this online forum at BeSpoke, we wanted to challenge ourselves to explore all avenues of online expression; both for getting our material out there, but also because online communication is yet another way of using one’s voice. My relationship with Twitter initially created skepticism and anxiety, but I’m growing into it— and in fact I find that using the principles we teach for in-person communication can strengthen the Tweeting voice as well.

Here are three tips taken from communication skills coaching that can strengthen your Twitter presence:

  1. If you have nothing to say, say nothing: When we first joined Twitter and started getting followers, I immediately felt this sense of pressure. I thought: ‘I have to say something, and I have to say something regularly, in order to keep and grow our following.’ I would wake up in the morning and think, “What do I tweet today?” And the reality is, there were a lot of days where I just had nothing to say. BeSpoke is a forum that posts weekly, not daily, so while I do sometimes come across other articles or interesting items, I am not at the point where I am ready to have daily content. It was a turning point for me to realize, first of all, that I was putting this unnecessary pressure on myself. Just because I had a forum, didn’t mean I needed to consistently use it. In fact, consistently speaking when you have nothing of substance to contribute can diminish your communication power, because people learn to stop listening.
    2. Breathe before you Tweet: The world is full of horror stories of people reactively tweeting without thinking, and living to regret it later. In the same way that words cannot be unspoken—while tweets can be deleted— they cannot be unseen. So before you tweet, take a breath. Is your message something you are comfortable with the entire world seeing? Will you still be comfortable with the entire world seeing it tomorrow? Or the next day? Or years later? If you’re not sure, exhale, leave it for an hour (or a day, month, or year) and come back to it. We always put the pressure on ourselves to respond immediately, but we could all benefit from some more reflection in our communication. Which leads me to:
    3. Listen: Even before Twitter, the world was full of people who had plenty to say (including me!), but the most difficult part of communication, in my humble opinion, is learning how to truly listen. Not letting someone else speak while you think of the next thing to say, as so many of us (me!) are guilty of, but really listening so that you are taking in others’ words and ideas. Breathing while you listen is an excellent way of helping you do just that— take in other people’s words— literally, with your breath! The biggest surprise for me about Twitter is discovering the amount of interesting information that’s out there that I can expose myself to and take in. However, if you find that you are tweeting while someone else is talking to you in real life, maybe even in response to what that person is saying (ahem, US congressmen and women), then put down your device. Trust that there will be time to respond later, and your response will be better, because with listening comes understanding.

I’m still very much in the beginning stages of understanding Twitter. One question that always comes up for me is, to tag, or not to tag when you post? There may be a whole etiquette around this I don’t understand, and yet when I don’t tag, I’m not sure people see my posts! (If you have any insight on this, please comment below, especially if you’re one of the people I’m always tagging!). And while online communication is certainly a new beast with a host of problems and opportunities to consider, it’s reassuring that, at the end of the day, this is still human communication— and we can bring what we already know about it to the table!

Take good care,